Sunday, April 6, 2014

Marriage and A Testamony

6 April 2014


Dear Phyllis,


We can take off our backpacks and sit down to rest reflecting that we are one weeks march closer to that great City where Jesus is waiting. Praise God it isn't far from here. So many of my dear friends have made it safely there that I can almost hear their voices from here. Oh what will it be like to sit down by that River of Life that flows from the Throne of God and have lunch with our friend again! But tomorrow we will have to shoulder our backpacks again and march on.


Last week was a good one in that we finished a huge bed project on time. We had ten beds to make by the end of March. A week ago Friday we got the last one put together and sanded, and Monday we got two coats of varnish on it. Pastor Et came by Tuesday to pick up all the finished beds. It was a joy to load them in his truck but the fellowship with him was the highlight. I have mentioned him in two previous letters. He is the brother that the Lord told to marry an HIV sister 15 years ago. That is the most courageous thing I have ever heard of, and he is about the happiest married man I have ever met. But his wife now has cancer. I asked him how she is doing. He was very encouraged. He said the doctors are only giving her 30% chance of survival. Then he added, “That gives God 70% chance for a miracle.” For a few minutes he spoke to my Lisu partner, John, and I about marriage. He said that marriage is not something you assume but must be cultivated every day. Then he explained, “The key word is 'supply' – what you bring to a marriage – not what you get from a marriage.” I thought that was extremely well put. John was tremendously impressed.


In between job we ran out of lumber for two days and decided to fill in the time by making two pulpits. It takes nearly ten boards to make one bed and we only had two boards in the shop – just enough for the pulpits. A brother had called me that morning asking me to make him a pulpit. At first I refused but then decided that we had enough lumber to make one for him and a blank day of time. He was deeply grateful. John was blown away with the design and said his church needed one also. So the next day we made one for him. It is beautiful.
It has been some time since I have written any testimonies and would like to share one of the more amazing works of God that I have seen. I know that I have told you this one before but the testimony of Niki is a conspicuou acts of God that can be well repeated.


In 1982 the Russians shot down Korean Airline Flight 007 just off the coast of Japan. Of the 48 Japanese passengers on board that flight there was a man who lived in our neighborhood in Ikoma. His wife was a Christian, and when I learned that she had lost her husband in that plane I had a burden to step forward to help her. I had never met her and learned that she was a member of a church in Nara, but sometimes her children went to our neighborhood church. I asked the girl working with children to introduce me to Mrs Matsuoka. A week later I was speaking in that church and Yumi chan told me that a widow woman had been in church that morning. The next week she pointed her pointed out to me and I spoke to that lady inviting her to come to our house for supper Tuesday night. When she showed up I was surprised that it was Mrs. Matsuoka but a different widow. But she told one of the most amazing testimonies I had ever heard.


Niki san was not a Christian and had lost her husband five years previously. She had a happy marriage but they were unable to have children. After six years of marriage, fortunately she did conceive and had a wonderful little son. It is common for Japanese women to return to their home for child birth to be near their mom; and Niki had returned to Ikoma for her delivery. A month later her husband called to say that he was coming the next day to pick her up and their new baby. Niki had the one month baby check at the hospital in Osaka and her husband said he would come to meet them there. Niki asked if he was sick. He said no but there was a problem he wanted to have checked at a hospital and would be a good place to meet.


They had a blessed two weeks together, but then the hospital notified her husband that the result of his check was not good and for him to come in for more treatment. Two weeks later he was dead. Niki was shattered. After waiting for six years she had one month of happy family life and her husband was snuffed out.


With her world collapsed, Niki returned back to Ikoma to live with her family, and have her mother take care of the baby so she could go to work. Then two years later the second disaster struck. Her mother died of cancer. Here she was a single mother with a two year old son and no one to take care of him so she could work. Fortunately there was a Christian woman living in that neighborhood who heard of her problem and stepped forward offering to take of Ta chan so she could continue working. Niki was deeply grateful for the kindness of this lady, but had no interest in her religion. Simply out of “giri” (obligation for a favor) she did consent to go with her to church one time.


Ohaka maeri (visiting graves) is a big thing for Buddhists. Buddhism teaches that it is important that relatives visit the grave of the deceased once a year on the anniversary of their death. Her husbands home was in Wakayama and Niki had to return to Wakayama each year for the one year grave visit. Niki had an older sister who lived in Wakayama who suggested that she stay with them for a night when she was down there. The first night she was in their home they explained to her that they had become Christian. Niki thought there was no problem with that. Religion was religion and if they liked Kirisuto kyo (Christianity), that was no problem with her.


The next year Niki went back to Wakayama for the annual ohaka maeri and stayed with her sister and husband again. But this time it was different. Her brother-in-law was a disgusting man. Shockingly he was transformed. Niki was stunned wondering, “What in the world had gotten into this man to make him so different? Now he was wonderful.”. That night they were going to have a cell meeting in their home and invited Niki to join them in this Christian meeting if she carede to. That night was the turning point of Niki's life.


I asked her, “What kind of a meeting was it?” She said it was nothing she could describe. There was no pastor or leader. There were about a dozen people who sat in the living room and read the Bible around in a circle. I asked, “What were they reading?” Niki said it was the story about some man in the Bible who had died and Jesus brought him back to life (Jn. 11). But then she added, “I was embarrassed. I thought the story was about me and they were reading all about my life.” Then she went on, “Please don't laugh at me. I know this is crazy, but when they got to the place were Jesus stood in front of th grave and said, 'Take ye away the stone', I thought He was speaking to me. It was like my heart was the grave and there was a large stone in front of it. If I took away the stone, life would come out of that grave.”


(That was the number one message that Johnathon Goforth preached in Manchuria in 1905 that brought thousands to the Lord.)


Two years before then Niki's younger sister had been married and had a blessed marriage. Niki was resentful. She thought, “It's not fair. I have had such a hard time and my younger sister has a happy marriage.” For two years she had not spoken to her sister even though they lived in the same house. The folks in Wakayama had given her two books and encouraged her to go to church in Ikoma. The next Sunday she had every reason why she shouldn't go but amazed herself when she found herself sitting in church in Ikoma. Her son, Ta chan, was acting up and she spent most of the service in the foyer of the church where she could listen, and yet Ta chan not be a distraction. There was some gaijin (foreigner) speaking about a fountain. The speaker said there are many different fountains in the world and some were used for drinking. Niki said in her heart, “I am thirsty and want to drink.” (That was me speaking from Zech. 13:1.) The next week Niki went back to church again, but this time there was a different speaker. He was Japanese. That was Nakaya sensei the pastor. But after the service the gaijin who had spoken the previous week spoke to her inviting her to come to his house for supper.


About at this point in her testimony, Ta chan, had to go to the bathroom. While she was gone Rosemary was exploding and said we must give this girl a book, and put our favorite book, Hikari Yo Are, on the table. When Niki came back from the bathroom and saw the book on the table, she gasped, “That is the book I received in Wakayama”. Then she said there was a beautiful prayer written in the back of that book that she had copied to carry in her purse. It was an outstanding salvation prayer written by Gotthold Beck. I asked her, “Have you prayed that prayer?” “Yes everyday. I memorized it and pray it everyday.” I exclaimed, “Congratulations! You are born-again.” She burst into tears.


That was 32 years ago. Niki shimai (sister) has been outstanding. From the moment she burst into rears in our living room she has always been a tremendous follower of Jesus. She was soon baptized in Megumi Kyokai (Grace Church) and has been one of the most stalwart members ever since. I haven't seen her in 25 years but friends tell me she has never slowed down. In obedience to the Lord to take away the stone, she apologized to her sister for the resentment that she had held so bitterly, and became close friends. But her sister in Wakayama was the biggest person in her life. She bought herself a good chair and placed it right beside the telephone along with her Bible. Every night she would call her sister in Wakayama and fellowship in Christ for an hour.

There are some people like this in this earth. The only thing you can say is that they are the chosen ones of God. You can't trace it to any certain person who is instrumental for the persons conversion. It is a series of events and many different people. In Niki sans case it is the Christian lady who first offered to take care of Ta chan so Niki could go to work. Then it was several people in Wakayama – her sister, her bother-in-law, the person who gave her the book and encouraged her to go to church in Ikoma. I played a minor role in that it was partially through my message on Zech. 13:1; although what the Lord said to her was much different than the main thrust of that message. It was because of the tragedy of the Russians shooting down KAL 007 and my desire to help Mrs. Matsuoka that I first spoke to Niki san. It was Gotthold Beck and the folks in Kichijoji who had put together that enormously successful book, Hikari Yo Are. And it has been Nakaya sensei who has been her pastor for 32 years. This is another illustration of life coming out of death. It was because her husband died that the Lord used all those event to direct her path to enter into eternal life.


At the time all these event were unfolding no one knew the significance of the contribution they were making. But the ultimate fabric that God wove together was a beautiful rejoicing child of God who has made up another portion of the Body of Christ.


See you at the rest area next week. Gambarimasho (Let's give it our best shot);                
                                                                                                               bill



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